Better to Have and Not Need Than to Need and Not Have
These words were on a huge sign that I passed everyday on the way to school. This is a “Teach us to number our days” message. We all know that some day we shall die, so have we made all the necessary plans and arrangements?
Wills, Power of Attorney, Medical Power of Attorney, Executors, DNR, etc. Express your wishes. Death with Dignity.
Memorial Service – It is far easier for you to express your wishes in writing, than for grieving family members to guess at what you might have wanted. Think hymns, scripture readings, poetry, special music, location, people you want to lead the service and people you want to speak and participate. Express also what you do not want! Your thoughtful planning ahead can save loved ones a lot of anguish. Put all of this in writing and give to the appropriate people. This is the thoughtful adult thing to do.
Finally, about your body. Burial? Cremation? Organ donation? My college, Miami University of Oxford, Ohio, just published an article about Dr. Jeffrey Schwartz, a transplant surgeon. His words: “The real heroes are the people signing the back of their driver’s license to donate organs, and the families who make those hard decisions at the time of someone’s death.” Research all the possibilities. Make it clear exactly what you want. This is good stewardship. This is generosity. You can make a huge difference in the lives of others.
“Don’t take your organs to heaven. Heaven knows we need them here.”
Knowing that we too shall die, how then shall we live?
O Lord, support us all the day long, until the shadows lengthen and the evening comes, and the busy world lies hushed, and the fever of life is over, and our work is done. Then in thy mercy grant us a safe lodging, and a holy rest, and peace at the last. Amen.
Be conscious, compassionate, courageous, celebrate life.
We are all sparks of the Divine Flame
Blessed Be
Compassionate Be
Boldly Be
Soul Nugget 